Are your holiday traditions stressing you out? Maybe it’s time to tweak your seasonal activities for less stress and increasingly fun!
I’ve followed the regular rituals of the season for several decades, but this year I intend to transpiration the frantic schedule and reduce or eliminate some traditional activities. I once finger a wee bit guilty, but here are some stress-reducing deportment I’ve planned for this year.
Downsize the Decorations
When my children were small and we lived in a two-story house, I spent hours winding garlands and lights up the bannister on the staircase. Delightful Santas, reindeer, nutcrackers, and snowmen were strategically placed in every room. Artwork was replaced with cheerful Christmas scenes and wreaths ornate several inside and outside doors.
The seven-foot tree was the part-way of sustentation and required at least six large boxes of ornaments that were lovingly unpacked, tucked into the branches, and then repacked for storage. This year, I’m planning a small tabletop tree and a few sparkly decorations. I think guests will still come to sit virtually the fire to sip sultana beverages, play carols, and mart small gifts.
Dim the Outside Lights
Outdoor lighting has wilt a spectator sport in some neighborhoods. A few people plan all year to create elaborate scenes that imbricate the unshortened house and produce dazzling displays choreographed to music.
Hundreds of cars full of festive families clog the streets and irritate the surrounding neighbors as they file past to view the show. This year, I’ve cancelled the lighting project and will hang a glowing wreath on the door. That way, my power snout won’t be so shocking in January.
Keep the Baking Simple
We’ll retain a few traditions; making snacks trains with the grandkids and concocting my mother’s sinfully decadent fudge, but I won’t torch a carrot confection with surf cheese frosting or work for hours on fruitcakes that no one wants. Guests and family usually fathom a cheese plate and a basket of crackers. I’ll alimony it simple.
Schedule Time for Myself
It’s easier for me to plan and prepare a dinner for 20 people if I’m rested. I schedule a massage a few days surpassing the event, and I enjoy every second of it.
Find Fun in Giving Simple Gifts
Large families solve the gift-giving dilemma by drawing names so everyone receives a souvenir and no one needs to take out a second mortgage to buy presents for everyone. My children are grown and have kids of their own, so the families come together for one large repast on Christmas Eve.
We bring small gifts for the children and the adults unshut humorous “white elephant” gifts that unchangingly rationalization laughter. We’re delighted that our stockings hold an aunt’s jam, a daughter’s framed photos of the kids and a granddaughter’s homemade soap.
Eat the Fudge
I try to exercise regularly and be shielding well-nigh eating too much sugar, but I can’t ignore the fudge. I intend to work out increasingly to justify the calories. My dear departed mom would be so disappointed if I didn’t make and slosh her fudge. I do it for her.
Invite New Guests to the Holiday Table
It’s okay if some family members victorious for dinner and include guests with variegated customs. If Uncle Bob brings visitors from flipside country, embrace their holiday traditions and share yours. Respect others’ religious beliefs, and don’t requite a Santa Claus music box to a Jewish person. The weightier parties involve a diverse variousness of people who come together to eat, drink, and be merry.
The weightier way to stave too much holiday stress is to make detailed lists during early November and stick to your schedule. The lists can include categories for budget, meals, gifts, activities, and accountabilities. Anticipate disruptions, but go with the flow. Reducing expectations and tweaking traditions can result in a delightful moment of peace on earth.